Where Do I Belong?

I am conflicted. I am torn. I am broken.
I am a lesbian.
I always have been.
But now. Where do I belong?
When it’s time for Shidduchim, where do I turn?
How long can I live this lie?
Shall I keep it in till the day I die?
I am conflicted. I am torn. I am broken.
But am I alone?

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  1. NotAlone March 22, 2018 at 8:54 am

    I know these feelings so much. There are organizations for frum LGBT folk. Eshel is one I’ve used. I really hope you’ll reach out to them or a similar group when you’re ready. They’ve been a huge help to me. And you’re not alone. As much as it often feels that way, I promise you’re not alone. And if nothing else, I hope at least for today, that will help get you through. But seek out others in the frum community. We’re out there, we understand.

  2. Anonymous March 22, 2018 at 8:59 am

    No you aren’t alone

  3. Anonymous March 22, 2018 at 9:04 am

    You’re not alone.

  4. Laya March 22, 2018 at 6:26 pm

    Not Alone

  5. JoJo March 22, 2018 at 6:35 pm

    You are not alone.
    Bi, asexual, polyamorous here.
    Two good friends who are trans* and one good friend who is genderfluid.
    Sending love and support.

  6. Shimon February 1, 2019 at 9:05 am

    You’re not alone. Gay here. And the only one in my very assimilated family to embrace Judaism.

  7. Anonymous March 22, 2019 at 3:44 am

    Your not alone….
    We can talk…if you want


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